{"id":1060,"date":"2020-09-08T12:00:52","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T18:00:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/?p=1060"},"modified":"2020-08-07T20:50:03","modified_gmt":"2020-08-08T02:50:03","slug":"how-do-you-include-forgiveness-in-your-ag-legacy-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/2020\/09\/08\/how-do-you-include-forgiveness-in-your-ag-legacy-2\/","title":{"rendered":"How Do You Include Forgiveness in Your Ag Legacy?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/2020_09_08_Forgiveness_how_INST.png\" alt=\"AgLegacy_IMAGE\" width=\"388\" height=\"388\"><\/p>\n<p><em>One reason we resist forgiving is that we don\u2019t really understand what forgiveness is or how it works. We think we do, but we don\u2019t.<\/em><br \/>\n* Forgiveness is not letting the offender off the hook.<br \/>\n* Forgiveness does not mean we must continue to be the victim.<br \/>\n* Forgiveness is not the same as reconciling. We can<br \/>\nforgive someone even if we cannot bring ourselves to get along with them again.<br \/>\n* Forgiveness is a process, not an event.<br \/>\n* Forgetting does not mean denying reality or ignoring<br \/>\nrepeated offenses.<br \/>\n* Forgiveness is not based on others\u2019 actions but on our attitude and state of mind.<br \/>\n* Withholding forgiveness is a refusal to let go of perceived power.<br \/>\n* Be careful not to forgive too quickly in order to avoid pain or, worse, to manipulate the situation.<br \/>\n* Watch that you are not simply covering up the wounds and holding back the necessary healing process.<br \/>\n* Forgiveness does not mean forgetting.<br \/>\n* Forgiveness starts with a mental decision. The emotional part of forgiveness is finally being able to let go of the resentment. <\/p>\n<p><em>#AGLEGACY.org #FarmSuccession #EstatePlanning<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One reason we resist forgiving is that we don\u2019t really understand what forgiveness is or how it works. We think we do, but we don\u2019t. * Forgiveness is not letting the offender off the hook. * Forgiveness does not mean we must continue to be the victim. * Forgiveness is not the same as reconciling. We can forgive someone even if we cannot bring ourselves to get along with them again. * Forgiveness is a process, not an event. * Forgetting does not mean denying reality or ignoring repeated offenses. * Forgiveness is not based on others\u2019 actions but on our attitude and state of mind. * Withholding forgiveness is a refusal to let go of perceived power. * Be careful not to forgive too quickly in order to avoid pain or, worse, to manipulate the situation. * Watch that you are not simply covering up the wounds and holding back the necessary healing process. * Forgiveness does not mean forgetting. * Forgiveness starts with a mental decision. The emotional part of forgiveness is finally being able to let go of the resentment. #AGLEGACY.org #FarmSuccession #EstatePlanning<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"sfsi_plus_gutenberg_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_show_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_type":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_alignemt":"","sfsi_plus_gutenburg_max_per_row":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1060","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1060","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1060"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1060\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1067,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1060\/revisions\/1067"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1060"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1060"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1060"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}