{"id":1245,"date":"2021-03-02T12:00:57","date_gmt":"2021-03-02T19:00:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/?p=1245"},"modified":"2021-02-10T16:27:43","modified_gmt":"2021-02-10T23:27:43","slug":"does-disrespect-belong-in-an-ag-legacy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/2021\/03\/02\/does-disrespect-belong-in-an-ag-legacy\/","title":{"rendered":"Does Disrespect Belong in an Ag legacy?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/modules\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/2021_03_02_DisrespectInAgLegacy_how_FCBK.png\" alt=\"2021_03_02_DisrespectInAgLegacy_how_IMAGE\" width=\"388\" height=\"388\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n#AGLEGACY.org #FarmSuccession #EstatePlanning<\/p>\n<p>We all feel slighted when we\u2019re not given the respect we feel we deserve. On the other hand, willingly subjecting yourself to disrespect can cause plenty of problems, such as poor self esteem and create an anger-bomb. It is even more difficult when it is a family member sending you the negativity.<\/p>\n<p>We can choose to help diffuse a situation or make it worse. We can work to stay in control and help break the cycle.<\/p>\n<p>First, don\u2019t personalize the negativity. While the other person may try to make it all about you, remember, it\u2019s about them.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes simply ignoring the comments can be an effective strategy. Avoid dropping to their level or engaging in their negativity.<\/p>\n<p>Other times you may need to engage a person who is acting disrespectful; you need a strategy to keep yourself from being sucked into the negativity. For help, see the AGLEGACY Newsletter \u201cDoes Disrespect Have A Place in Your Ag legacy?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>AG LEGACY Materials can help&#8230;<br \/>\nTo learn more about AG LEGACY materials and for ideas on where to begin see <a href=\"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/modules\/\">AGLEGACY.org<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>#AGLEGACY.org #FarmSuccession #EstatePlanning We all feel slighted when we\u2019re not given the respect we feel we deserve. On the other hand, willingly subjecting yourself to disrespect can cause plenty of problems, such as poor self esteem and create an anger-bomb. It is even more difficult when it is a family member sending you the negativity. We can choose to help diffuse a situation or make it worse. We can work to stay in control and help break the cycle. First, don\u2019t personalize the negativity. While the other person may try to make it all about you, remember, it\u2019s about them. Sometimes simply ignoring the comments can be an effective strategy. Avoid dropping to their level or engaging in their negativity. Other times you may need to engage a person who is acting disrespectful; you need a strategy to keep yourself from being sucked into the negativity. For help, see the AGLEGACY Newsletter \u201cDoes Disrespect Have A Place in Your Ag legacy?\u201d AG LEGACY Materials can help&#8230; To learn more about AG LEGACY materials and for ideas on where to begin see AGLEGACY.org<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"sfsi_plus_gutenberg_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_show_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_type":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_alignemt":"","sfsi_plus_gutenburg_max_per_row":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1245","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1245","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1245"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1245\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1248,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1245\/revisions\/1248"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1245"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1245"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1245"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}