![\"Graphic](\"http:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/2022_04_26_Forgiveness_how_FCBK.png\")
\n#AGLEGACY #FarmSuccession #EstatePlanning<\/p>\n
\n#AGLEGACY #FarmSuccession #EstatePlanning<\/p>\n
TO LEARN MORE see: AGLEGACY.org #AGLEGACY #FarmSuccession #EstatePlanning One reason we resist forgiving is that we don\u2019t really understand what forgiveness is or how it works. We think we do, but we don\u2019t. TO LEARN MORE see: AGLEGACY.org<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"sfsi_plus_gutenberg_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_show_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_type":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_alignemt":"","sfsi_plus_gutenburg_max_per_row":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1861","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1861","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1861"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1861\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1862,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1861\/revisions\/1862"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1861"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1861"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1861"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nOne reason we resist forgiving is that we don\u2019t really understand what forgiveness is or how it works. We think we do, but we don\u2019t.
\n<\/strong><\/p>\n
\n<\/p>\n
\nWe resist forgiving others because we don\u2019t really understand what forgiveness is all about.
\n* Forgiveness is not letting the offender off the hook.
\n* Forgiveness does not mean we must continue to be the victim.
\n* Forgiveness is not the same as reconciling. We can
\nforgive someone even if we cannot bring ourselves to get along with them again.
\n* Forgiveness is a process, not an event.
\n* Forgetting does not mean denying reality or ignoring
\nrepeated offenses.
\n* Forgiveness is not based on others\u2019 actions but on our attitude and state of mind.
\n* Withholding forgiveness is a refusal to let go of perceived power.
\n* Be careful not to forgive too quickly in order to avoid pain or, worse, to manipulate the situation.
\n* Watch that you are not simply covering up the wounds and holding back the necessary healing process.
\n* Forgiveness does not mean forgetting.
\n* Forgiveness starts with a mental decision. The emotional part of forgiveness is finally being able to let go of the resentment.
\n<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"