{"id":3463,"date":"2024-12-31T09:00:27","date_gmt":"2024-12-31T16:00:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/?p=3463"},"modified":"2024-12-04T18:21:58","modified_gmt":"2024-12-05T01:21:58","slug":"how-do-you-include-forgiveness-in-your-ag-legacy-5","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/2024\/12\/31\/how-do-you-include-forgiveness-in-your-ag-legacy-5\/","title":{"rendered":"How Do You Include Forgiveness in Your Ag Legacy?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>#AGLEGACY #FarmSuccession #EstatePlanning<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-194 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/2024_12_31_Forgiveness_how_FCBK.png\" alt=\"Graphic of AG LEGACY Media Post\" width=\"300\" height=\"291\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>One reason we resist forgiving is that we don\u2019t really understand what forgiveness is or how it works. We think we do, but we don\u2019t.<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\n<!--more--><\/p>\n<p><em><br \/>\nSee: AGLEGACY.org > Modules<\/p>\n<p>We resist forgiving others because we don\u2019t really understand what forgiveness is all about.<br \/>\n* Forgiveness is not letting the offender off the hook.<br \/>\n* Forgiveness does not mean we must continue to be the victim.<br \/>\n* Forgiveness is not the same as reconciling. We can<br \/>\nforgive someone even if we cannot bring ourselves to get along with them again.<br \/>\n* Forgiveness is a process, not an event.<br \/>\n* Forgetting does not mean denying reality or ignoring<br \/>\nrepeated offenses.<br \/>\n* Forgiveness is not based on others\u2019 actions but on our attitude and state of mind.<br \/>\n* Withholding forgiveness is a refusal to let go of perceived power.<br \/>\n* Be careful not to forgive too quickly in order to avoid pain or, worse, to manipulate the situation.<br \/>\n* Watch that you are not simply covering up the wounds and holding back the necessary healing process.<br \/>\n* Forgiveness does not mean forgetting.<br \/>\n* Forgiveness starts with a mental decision. The emotional part of forgiveness is finally being able to let go of the resentment.<br \/>\n<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>#AGLEGACY #FarmSuccession #EstatePlanning One reason we resist forgiving is that we don\u2019t really understand what forgiveness is or how it works. We think we do, but we don\u2019t.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"sfsi_plus_gutenberg_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_show_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_type":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_alignemt":"","sfsi_plus_gutenburg_max_per_row":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3463","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3463","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3463"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3463\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3494,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3463\/revisions\/3494"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3463"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3463"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uwagec.org\/aglegacy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3463"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}